The new/old wedge issue

Back in 2004 gay marriage (not marriage equality) was the big wedge issue. It was rammed onto state ballots to encourage the Fundies to vote. It highlighted the difference between GOP and Dems. There was no concern who it hurt.

My, how things change in eight years.

Democrats in the New Jersey legislature have introduced bills S1 and A1 (A for Assembly) to legalize gay marriage. Yup, they are numbered to be the first item of business of the new legislature. And it will have to be marriage because NJ already has civil unions that are supposed to be the same as marriage in everything but the name. Marriage equality was mandated by the NJ Supremes several years ago and gay groups have a date before the Supremes to say civil unions aren't really equal to marriage.

These bills will likely pass. Alas, Gov. Chris Christie has said he disapproves of gay marriage. He may veto the bills, or he may not sign and allow them to take effect without his signature. There probably aren't enough votes for an override.

Timothy Kincaid says it this way:

Just as it was in 2004, gay marriage is again becoming a wedge issue. But this time it is opponents of equality who are embarrassed and defensive and trying to explain why their positions are inconsistent with will of the populace.
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Now we will soon learn in New Jersey whether marriage equality has become so socially accepted that civil unions support is a position that can hurt a politician.